Monday, October 20, 2008
Dancing Queen
No baby yet...
Hyena Sighting!
Monday, October 13, 2008
Sewing project!
Sewing actually makes me appreciate people when they say they can't cook. In general I tend to feel like there is nothing to cooking - you just read the recipe and do what it says! But that is because I cook enough to understand the instructions! Quite often when I read pattern instructions I understand the words but still have no idea what they mean!!!
and despite the success of the bed skirt I am leaning toward skipping the diaper stacker all together or buying one... or talking my mom into making one when she is here for Christmas... that might be the best idea yet:)
Thursday, June 26, 2008
Our Grocery Store Burned!
Change of Plans
In the meantime, i will try to be more diligent in updates our last few weeks in Malawi as I feel like the only reason my posts might be remotely interesting is because of where we live... whether or not the stores in Temple are stocking sour cream is hardly worth mentioning:) And speaking of Malawi... the water board was going around on a loudspeaker earlier this evening announcing that people needed to pay their bills or they were going to disconnect us tomorrow! I guess that means I should go to the water board and attempt to decipher my bill and see who owes who...rest assured there will be more to this story!
And currently, vehicles with loud sirens have passed our house 3 times in the last 5 minutes. Interesting since in my 2 years here I have never seen a siren like this!! I am sure the guards will give us an update tomorrow! (i could go out for the scoop now but the door is already locked)
Sunday, June 8, 2008
Oops!
Several quick (and random) updates!
- Karis continues to make us laugh and terrify us at the same time. She now likes to change her DVDs by herself despite knowing she is not allowed! The scary part is that she does it successfully. Yesterday we went for a walk and saw chickens and heard a rooster. She asked what the sound was and I said it was a chicken. Her response was something along the lines of, "chickens say cluck, cluck". So i then had to clarify the voices of hens vs. roosters! She also likes to pick her own outfits and changes clothes about 50 times a day! In general, we are okay with this but at times it can take forever to choose an outfit to get out the door and that is maddening!!
- Our gas tank is on E and there was no fuel in town today! The current rumor is that prices are about to go up again - so either the stations are hording their fuel till the new price takes effect or they really don't have any. There are a few other rumors/theories but they imply a longer shortage so I am trying to ignore them!
- In other shopping news: we now have a semi-regular supply of sour cream at one of our stores!! I cannot describe the amount of excitement and joy this created amongst shoppers when it first appeared!! The strange thing is that sour cream was certainly not on my usual shopping list in the States. Why it is so exciting here I am not sure!
- I only have one more day of 7th grade science. It has been a great experience but I am glad it is almost over!
- This is our winter and it has been rather chilly in the evenings and mornings! I definitely appreciate a duvet and don't envy those of you in Texas this time of year!
- I had an ultrasound while in the U.S. and the baby is a boy!
Tuesday, May 13, 2008
Sara's trip to the U.S.
Cleaning out the Car
- water wings
- 6 pairs of Karis's shoes -no 2 year old should even have 6 pairs!
- 11 water bottles
- 2 Bibles
- 3 books
- 4 pens
- Alcohol gel
- 2 egg cartons
- 2 diapers
- Karis's sunglasses
Monday, April 28, 2008
Ongoing water board saga
I am not sure what happened but the water board has clearly had some huge issue with their computer system they are having a hard time recovering from. When I was in the office last week attempting to figure the whole thing out there were several very angry people in line around me with similar issues. Unfortunately I had to leave before I even got to the counter but that was probably just as well considering the guys working were so frazzled it probably wasn't worth it.
last week i was trying to solve the problem. This week I have decided to ignore it! When I have energy and feel inspired I will attempt again! In the meantime, I ahve certainly more than paid my bill so my water should not get disconnected!
7th grade science
Wednesday, April 16, 2008
Karis' trip to Maasailand
Thursday, April 10, 2008
Elusive Kilimanjaro!
Elusive Kilimanjaro!
Monday, March 31, 2008
Karis is going to be a big sister!
England!
Things are really expensive in England. Most things "cost" the same amount (or more) in pounds as they would in dollars the only problem is that the exchange rate is $2 to 1 pound! So an 8.99 menu item is really $17! Needless to say, we did not do a lot of shopping and there was a conspicuous lack of tourists from the U.S.!
The Soap Opera Ends!
a week later MK 15,000 (approx $100) was stolen out of our car!! We have never left money in the car like that before and also always lock the car but came home from a trip and in the process of unloading etc etc just forgot to lock it. Two guards and the gardner had access to the money!! And of course, they all denied it! Thomas, the gardner, was very contrite and very upset. He is smart enough to know that the standard procedure in this case is that 1)they all get fired and/or 2) the police get called in which case everyone gets roughed up a bit till the truth comes out... The guards (Samson and Lloyd) on the other hand were rather obnoxious with their denials and kept saying, "you should have locked the car"... Because we are too soft and because we really did not think Thomas did it and we couldn't fire the guards and not him, we decided to deduct the money from all their salaries. Again, Thomas handles it well knowing this is the best case scenario and the guards whine and complain. A few days later, our third guard, Immanuel, comes forward with some information that indicates Lloyd was the one who took the money. Since we wanted to give it time to learn if Samson had also been in on it and because we did not want to fire people and then leave immediately we did not do anything prior to leaving for London. The day we returned was payday and we were going to address it then. Well, we come home to discover there has been an "emergency"! Immanuel had called our friends on Monday saying they had to come and take our car because Samson and Lloyd were going to steal it that night! Thankfully, the malawain administrator from Baylor came, heard the whole story and fired Samson and Lloyd on the spot. So we came home the next day to just Immanuel who then said that he was being threatend by the other two and just couldn't continue to work here - unfortunately not surprising for how things work here. So we paid him his salary and some severance and sent him on his way. The next day the other 2 show up to plead their case! They of course say that they know nothing about stealing the car, they don't even know how to drive, that Immanuel had actually been in trouble before for stealing a car and that he was the one who hatched the whole plan and when they wouldnt go along with it he used his cell phone to get them in trouble! (they don't have phones) To be honest, their story could be true... But I don't care!!!! I am just so happy that all three are gone. All three had bad attitudes and had been fairly difficult for a while - not the sort of clear cut issues you can fire over but just attitudes and there was too much smoke surrounding all of them! The sad thing is that jobs are hard to come by and they are all three living at a very, very basic level and have families to provide for. The other thing that disturbs me slightly is that Samson and Lloyd still say they did not take the money and Immanuel was not here to have been able to do it... so are Samson and Lloyd lie to the death or did Thomas, the only one I (think) trust and is still working, take it???
Tuesday, March 18, 2008
Karis
The two most recent developments are that she was pretty sick last week and she has started "school". Whether school contributed to the illness is up for discussion but we don't really think so! Basically she is going to nursery school a couple of days a week and really seems to enjoy it. I had been contemplating sending her a little anyway just for the chance to play with other kids and then I got a temporary teaching job and fired our housekeeper/nanny in the same week so that expedited the need to have a place to send her a few hours here and there! I do have a few concerns about the school but to be honest, I have concerns with all the schools here. Safety standards just are not what they are in the U.S. but there is a good ratio of adults to kids and they are all well supervised everytime I am there. She will definitely go at least three days a week for the next "term" which is April thu June because those will be days that I am teaching but I am not sure after that. The advantage of this school was that they were allowing us to pay by the day so it was pretty cost effective to just send her one or 2 days a week. Now we have to pay for full time. It is worth it while I am teaching but I am not sure after that. Also I have not replaced Mathilda in the house so I am not paying that salary. If we end up replacing her I can't afford or justify employing someone full time and send Karis to "School". However, the next few months are sorted out so I will worry about that later!
Meanwhile, karis was sick all last week with high fevers off and on, no appetite and diarrhea. Of course, if your intake for a solid week consisted of milk and avocado the latter can hardly be unexpected! We took her for a malaria smear on Weds after she actually had chills on tuesday night but it was negative. Still, the fevers continued so on Thursday we took her in for labwork and antibiotics. John of course had not been verbalizing much but had been ruling out various diagnoses all week. By Thursday he had narrowed it down to salmonella or typhoid (and I think those 2 are actually related to one another or even similar) She certainly had the symptoms for typhoid he read out of the medical book and we know she ate muffin batter with raw eggs and went swimming in lake malawi so certainly could have been exposed to goodness knows what! Unfortunately, they had a really hard time finding a vein in her chubby little arms and hands so even after 3 sticks did not get enough blood to really diagnose the problem but an injection of a broad spectrum antibiotic worked a miracle and she seemed to recover almost immediately! (did the sickness run its course or the antibiotic just work... who really knows!) We are just really thankful she is better!
Shades of Gray
- When we bought our car last year we were told it was a 1999 but then one of the forms said 1997. And no where in the car could we initially find a year! We suspect that it is a 1997 but there are import issues that make it easier to bring in and register/inspect cars that are less than 10 years old...
- Taxes are really high here (sales tax is 17.5%) so basically, no one charges it. If you go to pretty much any of the Asian owned shops (which is the majority of shops) they don't actually give you a receipt. They use an adding machine to get your tally and write it on a scrap of paper. How they cook their books at the end of the month/year to justify no sales is a mystery to me....
- Everyone has household staff and the employer is technically required to withhold income tax from their salaries. Yet no one does. I've recently discovered that if income is less than 6,000 kwacha ($42) a month you do not have to pay taxes so some people are technically legal because they pay their staff poorly and then add on things like food, transport, and housing allowances etc (thought the topic of allowances in Malawi is a whole other nightmare for future discussion).
- A large number of businesses (run by expats and malawians) operate totally under the table - the owner may or may not have a work permit and they certainly aren't paying any taxes. It is a bit of a vicious cycle - it is so much hassle to attemp to do it legally so people just don't bother. But maybe if everyone actually paid taxes the government wouldn't have to tax so high?!
- For a little bit of money and knowing the right person you can expedite almost any paperwork you might need to have done such as car inspections etc, etc. Depending on what you want/need this procedure can fall into the clearly not legit category or much more gray!
So let me just wrap up by telling you about my morning yesterday. It started by exchanging money with a friend. He needs some U.S. dollars and I needed some kwacha so we made a mutually beneficial trade. He is using company kwacha to collect company dollars to buy things for the company in the U.S. He will not mismanage the money and the company benefits by being able to buy more, better quality items from the U.S. to help their business... Then I went to a very nice shop in town to buy gifts to take to the UK tomorrow. I know the owner so he sometimes gives me an unsolicited "discount". Then I went to the travel agent to check on some issues inclduign the fact that the charge for our tickets to London has still not showed up on my credit card bill... despite that I "paid" for it a month ago. She thinks it will show up in the next few days but recommended I just wait till we get back to pursue it further! and this is getting long so I will save the story of the electricty bill for a different post!
Saturday, February 23, 2008
Marley
Saturday, January 26, 2008
Updates...
My neighbor made a comment several weeks ago that it is hard to cross things off your
"To Do" list here because issues never seem to actually be resolved! At the time I thought she was being a bit pessimistic but as I look back over my posts I see her point!
- John's computer - Thomas installed the processor and it worked!! for about a day... We really think there is an issue with the power supply and actually were afraid of this the whole time we were going through the motherboard procedure. Anyway, John gave the computer back to Thomas to get worked on. That was before Christmas and we still haven't heard anything...
- Our road - this one gets funnier and funnier(sort of). After December 14th or so they did not work on it until after the holidays. Then for 2 weeks they worked on the 100 meters of road that passes directly in front of our gate. There was a nice dirt detour but to get to our house you had to go over the stretch that was being worked on. We would just get out, move the drum that was blocking the road, go through, and then put it back. It took so long because they had to put in a culvert just a few meters down. Then one day they were suddenly gone! Which was odd because the road clearly is not finished. It needs another layer of tar or something! According to our guards (who enjoyed the entertainment outside the gate) someone stole some of the money for the road so they have quit and aren't going to do any more! The sad thing about it is that there is no way the road will hold up through the rains. By this time next year it will be in worse condition that it ever was... Unfortunate
- water board - After spending an hour figuring out the problem (8500 kwacha suddenly appeared on our bill) I went to the water board to resovle it. The man was quite nice and agreed with my calculations of usage and bills paid etc. He gave me an explanation that made absalutley no sense about the extra charge but assured me it would be fine... Since karis was running everywhere, I couldn't really hear/understand him through the window and it seemed futile I just said "okay" and left with nothing really resolved! Later John went to try to figure it out as well he also came home a bit defeated from the logical explanation standpoint but assured that if we paid the amount for December we would be at a "zero" balance. Of course, we're yet to actually see the bill for December but I went ahead and paid the amount the other day. Of course when i went to pay the man had no change! I normally just let them give us a credit but since the goal is to get to "zero" I wanted change this time so I had to go shopping to get some change! I did that and then got back in line only to be behind someone paying muliptle bills with coins! It took about 10-15 minutes and by the time he was done the cashier had enough change for the week! Theoretically we should now get a bill for January with a zero opening balance and the charge that mysteriously appeared will have disappeared. If not, there will be further updates!
Wednesday, January 9, 2008
Satemwa Tea Estate
We visited a tea estate while Sara's parents were here. It was really, really beautiful and relaxing. We had been to this estate before - in the dry season. This time we stayed in a house that was higher up the hill and it is rainy season. We made it but it was pretty sketchy in our little sedan! In fact, we were a little worried that if it rained too much while we were there we would not make it out. I kept assuring myself it would be fine and then it rained for HOURs the night before we left! Thankfully it was actually not too bad, even though it had only been few hours a lot of the water had been absorbed already. We decided we must have arrived immediately after a rain the first day.
Fuel shortage
- Prices are about to go up and people are trying to fill up before they do and there has been so much rain in this whole region that the tankers are having a hard time making it through.
- Both our fuel and fertilizer come from Mozambique. Malawi is incredibly dependent on maize and every year need more and more fertilizer to get a good crop and there is so much fertilizer coming right now with planting season that the customs officials are getting behind and the fuel is not getting through...
- Stations are hording fuel because prices are about to go up and they want to sell their fuel after the price hike
Your guess is as good as mine as to the true reason! In the meantime, i am just happy for a full tank!